02-23-2010, 06:17 PM
Hi,
I'm an irritating, arrogant, opinionated, sob and I know it. If that doesn't put a person off, then that's a pretty tolerant person and little that I've done in the past would matter. I'm not proud of everything I've done, but I can (and have) lived with the shame of my failings. And the statute of limitations covers the rest. :D
--Pete
Quote:I have been thinking about this statement. You are not the first to say this to me. And, while I applaud the sentiment, I can't agree. I do care what people know about me, because it can and always will colour their perceptions of me and mine.While I completely agree with what you've said, it is the final implication that I do not accept. I agree, what people think of you *is* based on what they know of you. Where I disagree is that what people think of you matters. When I started turning gray, my mother suggested that I dye my hair, my response was, "Why should I bother, I already have a wife and a job." :whistling:
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So while I salute your cavalier attitude, I certainly can't share it. The world is full of people who judge quickly and completely on small bits of information. It is human nature.
I'm an irritating, arrogant, opinionated, sob and I know it. If that doesn't put a person off, then that's a pretty tolerant person and little that I've done in the past would matter. I'm not proud of everything I've done, but I can (and have) lived with the shame of my failings. And the statute of limitations covers the rest. :D
--Pete
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