DOMA and Prop 8. Both History.

[Jester]

No, and that is why we don't choose to check every single 'normal marriage' to see if both people really really really consent.

Convenient for mono people, they get a free pass on whether their marriage is sufficiently equal, whether or not it actually is. So much the worse for poly people, that without exception, they are forbidden, because there is a chance it might not be equal.

(and I don't think the 4 girls mentioned are particularly harmed they can't get married all together, I guess they are happy enough just living together)

I'm glad you're good enough at reading minds, that you can check if people you'd forbid to get married are "happy enough" without that right. What if they aren't? Or, if they are, what about another group that isn't?

-Jester