I recommend you Dragon´s Crown

[kandrathe]

When my 1st son was about 3, he (Really)^50th power wanted these Mega blok (psudeo LEGO) castles, each about 1000+ pieces. So, being the dutiful Santa papa, I assembled one of them until 3am that Christmas. Before I awoke that morning it was demolished in a flurry of giggles and laughter, then pleas for me to rebuild it. This is a key insight into my son. In Hindi terms, he was more Shiva in spirit than Brahma.

So, over the remaining Christmas break I painstakingly re-assembled it, and two others. This time with super glue. They lasted as castles much longer this time, then as destroyed castles for awhile. And, he played with the dragons for many years.

My sons also have the giant tub of random LEGO's which they still play with occasionally. They get the kits too, and are proficient in building them without my help (or more likely a hindrance at this point).

Somewhat back to the subject of Dragon's Crown. My oldest is getting sex ed in school this year, and I just helped him complete some assignments exploring the topic of abstinence, STD's, etc which required him to interview his parents. They are late because he was too embarrassed to even discuss the topics with anyone, let alone parents. Long story shorter: I used parts of our discussion here in relaying to him the idea of our responsibility to treat people with respect, and to not only consider our consequences, but the consequences (in our actions or inactions) to everyone involved. Personally, I'm agog at what women suffer in pregnancy, and birth, and am humbled by it. When I showed the images of the sorceress to my wife, her opinion was that they were offensive to women. She is not their demographic.